The british author and philosper Aldous Huxley once said: Experience is not what happens to a man: it is what man does with what happens to him. I do not agree with this view. The reason is that if one agrees to such a thinking, it implies that a concept like fate exists. I strongly believe that there is no such thing as fate, but that each individual must take control over life and the path which to follow. In such a view, experience is what man does with what he himself takes control over, such as life itself.
However, even believing in this, living by my own words is the hardest task I have ever encountered.